moonsongtraveller:

cantwaitforcommunism:

signs you might be a lesbian:

• you feel like you could theoretically be attracted to men (you may even have fantasies about them), but in practice you never have any feelings for them
• it seems like you have to force yourself to find guys attractive, have crushes on them, etc.
• you feel grossed out by/neutral towards heterosexual romance, but not romance between women
• you couldn’t imagine yourself being in a very long-term relationship with/married to a man
• you feel like you could have a romantic relationship with a man but not a sexual relationship, or vice versa
• your attraction to men feels less real than your attraction to women, and it feels much more forced
• you’re far more certain about being attracted to women than you are about being attracted to men

so this is really helpful

"When I was little, I thought love was about red roses and expensive dinners.. Truth is, love is giving her half your fries when she said she wasn’t hungry. It’s waking up at 4am to her snoring and refraining from shoving her off the bed. It’s talking in accents just for shits, and trying to embarrass one another in public. It’s going on adventures, and making fun of each other. It’s stupid fights and memorable make ups. Love isn’t pretty and romantic.. Love is just stumbling through life with your best friend.”